With a very heavy heart, I’m sorry to tell you that Hunter passed away yesterday shortly after noon. Since our last post about how happy his 42nd birthday was two weeks ago, his condition had rapidly declined. He had been admitted to an in patient hospice unit at the beginning of the week. Hunter was happy with the decision to be admitted, as he was much more comfortable having 24 hr. medical care since he often felt on the verge of suffocating, and wasn’t able to get enough relief at home anymore. It had gotten really hard to watch him struggle just to breathe, and know that there was no real way that we could help him.
He was ready, and he was at peace. I may post more on this at a future date, but right now just wanted to get the information out there, as I know many of you had already heard. We will be posting our plans for the service by Monday, but likely it will be on Friday morning (30th), here in Mount Juliet. As soon as we have the details figured out, I will get it posted so that any of you that wish to attend can start making plans.
I am so sorry that this isn’t the news that any of us wanted to hear. Please know that he truly felt the love, respect, friendship, encouragement, thoughts and prayers from all of you throughout this whole journey.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys , Jenn. Big hugs. Love you.
Jenn- thank you for your strength. Thank you for seeing Hunter through and helping him to find peace. We all will carry his love and laughter in our hearts and we will pass his joy for life onto our children. We love you all. Chad and I will see you soon. Thank you for caring for our friend.
Praying for continued strength and comfort as you find your way through each day ahead.
I’m so sorry, yet can’t express how happy I am that Hunter had such an amazing wife and family to see him through all of this, and that you guys were together through it all. He will be missed. Thinking of you and the boys…
So heartbroken for you and your boys Jenn. I’m grateful to have been able to read Hunter’s thoughts on this blog. You are in my prayers.
I’m so sorry Jenn. I can’t imagine what you are feeling right now and I’m totally amazed by your strength. Hunter was so lucky to have you by his side through all of this. My heart is completely crushed. I feel so lucky to have known him and call him friend. I will cherish the memories of trick or treating and Easter egg hunts, of long talks about chemistry and coffee table books about all of the elements of the periodic table. You and those beautiful boys have my thoughts, prayers, love. My heart is there with you.
So sorry & sad to hear of Hunter’s passing. Your family is in my prayers. My hope is that you find comfort & peace in the midst of the pain. God Bless!
We are so very sorry. We hope that yesterday’s memories will comfort your tomorrows. We send our love to you and your family.
I’m so sorry, Jenn. I’m grateful for our fun dates nights in Virginia and dinners at your house. We’re planning to be there on Friday. Hunter was really lucky to have you.
My sincerest condolences and best wishes for you and the boys. Hunter was a singularly unique man. It was truly my honor to have known him.
I am sure Hunter has found peace with the Lord. He has left you, the boys and all of us with lot of fond memories. We have all been blest for knowing him. May You, Ben and Jack receive comfort and peace from our Lord.
My deepest sympathies for you and your boys, Jenn. I will continue to keep you all in my thoughts.
My heart is with you and the boys. May God comfort you and surround you with love and memories of such a wonderful man. You’re all in my prayers.
I’m so sorry. I will be praying for you and your boys.
We are sorry. Words along cannot comfort you all but the wonderful memories you all have created will forever be with you.
\ Please know that you all have been in our thoughts and prayers and we will continue praying for you. Sending our love and huge hugs to you all.
The Porters
Jenn, I’m so sorry to hear the sad news. I worked with Hunter a few years ago at DTRA. My condolences to you and your sons. To God we belong and to Him we return.
Hossam Ahmed
From: It’s Not a Sprint >To: hammer_ahmed@yahoo.com >Sent: Saturday, August 24, 2013 11:52 PM >Subject: [New post] The Finish Line > >Jenn Lindsey posted: “With a very heavy heart, I’m sorry to tell you that Hunter passed away yesterday shortly after noon. Since our last post about how happy his 42nd birthday was two weeks ago, his condition had rapidly declined. He had been admitted to an in patient hospice” >
Jenn and the boys and also his friends and coworkers, what comes to mind is Ed Bromely’s lyrics to I’ll Fly away:
Last verse:
Just a few more weary days and then,
I’ll fly away;
To a land where joy shall never end,
I’ll fly away (I’ll fly away)
We are sad to lose him and happy he is with Christ.
In His name with love and prayer,
Fred and Ellen
Jenn, we are so very sorry for your loss. You and your sweet boys are in our thoughts and prayers. With love, Kelly, Tim and the Viles boys
I have been bawling over the loss of Hunter since I first heard the news. He was a most beloved and influential figure and friend during my formative years (middle & high school). I cannot fathom what you must be going through as his wife and the mother to his children. I have two boys just a little younger than yours, so Hunter’s passing is hitting close to home on many fronts. I am so, so sorry for all that you’ve had to endure, for all that you’ve lost, for all that lies ahead. Still, I am strangely relieved to know that Hunter had the time to get his affairs in order and say his goodbyes, and that he was surrounded by such intense love and support. I know it’s a good thing that he’s no longer in pain, but it still seems so incredibly unfair that he was only able to be part of this world and our lives for such a short span of time. Fortunately, it was more than enough time for Hunter’s legacy to live on through innumerable people across the globe, but most especially through those two beautiful boys you have. I will continue to pray for you and your boys as you all enter a new chapter in the book of life.
Jenn,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your boys will remain in our hearts forever. Thank you for your post. You are so sweet to think of everyone else as you deal with the passing of Hunter into a new life with Christ.
Sincerely,
Mary Peterson
Such sad news Jenn. I know it will be hard to be the pillar of strength for the boys, but you are one strong woman. Even if moments where you will question it, you have been amazing to Hunter and the boys and will continue to be. Please let me know if there is anything you need. I’d be happy to mail anything for you, for the boys, whatever you need or even just something to brighten the day. (HUGS) to you all.
We are so sorry to for your loss. You and the boys are in our prayers each day.
The Shannons send their very sincerest condolences and thoughts to you and the boys, Jen. We have been praying for Hunter and you all these months and know that the love between you both was a gift from God. You can be assured of our continued prayers. God bless all of you. Vivian Shannon
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Hunter will be missed. God be with you and your family. I know Hunter is with him.
Jenn I am so sorry for your loss! Hunter was a truly wonderful person and I feel privileged to have known him. I continue to be in awe of your strength and I wish you the very best!
God has another angel on his side. I loved him like a brother and he will always be in our hearts and minds. Whatever you and the boys need Jenn, just ask.
Jenn,
Devastated by the loss, and know that the thoughts and prayers of my family are with you. Like many have said, I am privileged to have known Hunter, and to have worked with him. He influenced the lives of so many, not the least of which was this blog, which should be a example for many to look to in times of trial.
May the Lord grant you the strength to get through this, and help your sons too.
Chris (from USMA)
Jenn, we’ll all deeply miss Hunter. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
We offer you and the boys our DEEPEST condolences. You have lived a lifetime in the shortest of moments with a truly incredible person. No words can describe what you are experiencing right now nor will any words quiet the pain of his loss.. We are so VERY sorry. Jenn.
Jean and Ken
The prayer (from the Episcopal Book of Common Prayer that I have been saying since I got the news that Hunter had died:
Most merciful God, whose wisdom is beyond our
understanding: Deal graciously with Hunter’s family in their grief.
Surround them with your love, that they may not be
overwhelmed by loss, but have confidence in your
goodness, and strength to meet the days to come; through
Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
God bless you all, and may Hunter lie peacefully in the arms of God.
John Hall (friend of Robin)
Praying for your family.
Jenn, we are keeping you and your sons in our thoughts and prayers. Your family is grieving with you. God takes care of us on both sides of the river so know that Hunter is in a place of pure love where there is no more pain. He will show you signs that he is always near. Just keep your eyes and heart open.
Love you all. Jeanna (Swanson) and Bill Winter
I am so so sorry Jenn. Hunter was one of a kind, and will always be in our hearts. He left a lasting impression on so many. Sending prayers to you and the boys.
Jenn,
We haven’t met but Dan and I knew Hunter in college. We want to send you love and our sincerest prayers. Hunter fought with dignity and strength. We are so sorry for your loss and wish you and the boys love and courage as you move forward.
Sincerely,
Emmy and Dan Hays
Jenn,
Prayers and light to you, the boys, and entire family as you navigate these tender days ahead.
I wanted to express deep gratitude to Hunter and to you, Jenn, as you both invited us to share this journey that was bathed in humor, courage, fortitude, and most importantly…deep love of family. In the face of extraordinary physical, emotional, and spiritual challenges, Hunter taught us valuable lessons, and reminded us time and time again of what is so sacred in life…. that gift will live on in all of the hearts he touched so profoundly…I am privileged to be one of those hearts.
Love and Peace,
Dee DeFoor
I am so proud to have known Hunter and call him a friend! I am so sorry for the loss of his life being cut short. I am thrilled to know he experienced the love of his wife and boys, but saddened by their loss as well! I have not seen Hunter since 1995 but shed tears for him today. Jenn we have never met, but please know your family is in my thoughts and prayers!
May you rest in peace, Hunter. This saddens my heart for your family and friends that loved you. Your family’s loss is profound. You and your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Gone but never forgotten,
Lani Gardner Skipper
I am at a loss for words. Jenn, I know we have never met. Hunter and I went to UGA together. We had lost touch over the years but I hold fond memories of Hunter. He was an incredible person. Please know I am thinking of you and your family.
Matt Vessell
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Your strength and sharing through this blog has been such a testimony. May you find peace in your coming days.
Mary Zimmerman and Katherine Hunt
Toccoa, GA – 10th Grade Science Fair Visitors to Nashville with Tory!
Jenn, I am so so very sorry for your loss. 😥 I will keep your boys and you in my prayers. I pray that Hunter’s soul rests in peace. He was a good man. May God give you the strength to deal with this difficult time. Just know that Hunter is watching over all of you. It’s so heartbreaking how this horrible disease can change so many lives forever. Stay strong. God bless!
Godspeed, Hunter, Jenn and Family.
Jennifer,
I knew Hunter here at Vanderbilt. He was a great person to know and i am very fortunate to have met him. I am sorry for your loss and will definitely be donating to the Fisher House.
God Bless